Meghan’s Public Displays of Touch Toward Harry Reflect ‘A Desire to Keep Him Close’ — Insights from a Body Language Expert

Over the years, the affectionate moments between the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have been captured countless times on camera. Recently, a body language expert delved into the significance of their public displays of affection.

From the beginning, the royal couple faced skepticism regarding their relationship. In his memoir, “Spare,” Prince Harry recounted the moment he introduced Markle to his family in 2016.

He shared that his father, King Charles III, initially liked her, but his brother, Prince William, was more reserved, and reportedly referred to Markle as “an American actress.”

In a January 2023 interview, Prince Harry reflected on his wife’s early unfavorable encounters with his family, saying, “Right from the beginning, before they even had a chance to get to know her. And the U.K. press jumped on that. And here we are.”

Asked if that was because of mistrust, the royal explained, “The fact that she was American, an actress, divorced, Black, biracial with a Black mother. Those were just four of the typical stereotypes that is– becomes a feeding frenzy for the British press.”

Despite the initial negative reception, Prince Harry didn’t let it stop him from moving forward with his relationship with Markle. He proposed in 2017, and the two exchanged vows in May 2018. The following year, in May 2019, they welcomed their first child, son Prince Archie.

A year later, in January 2020, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex made headlines when they revealed their intention to step down from their roles as “senior” members of the royal family and focus on becoming financially independent.

“After many months of reflection and internal discussions, we have chosen to make a transition this year in starting to carve out a progressive new role within this institution,” the statement read.

The pair later welcomed their second child, daughter Princess Lilibet, in June 2021. Since stepping away, Prince Harry and Markle’s relationship has faced increased scrutiny from both the media and the public. The Duchess, in particular, became noticeably absent from public life in England.

Markle accompanied Prince Harry to the funeral of the late Queen Elizabeth II in September 2022 but has since not returned to his homeland, even opting to miss King Charles III’s coronation.

December, 4 brought more intrigue when Markle made a dazzling appearance at the 2024 Paley Honors Fall Gala in Beverly Hills. She attended the event to support her close friend Tyler Perry, who was being honored by The Paley Center for Media.

The two shared a warm embrace on the red carpet, reflecting years of friendship. Perry, the godfather of their daughter Princess Lilibet, famously opened his Los Angeles home to the couple in 2020 when they transitioned from royal life.

While Markle mingled in Beverly Hills, Harry was across the country in New York City, participating in The New York Times’ DealBook Summit. During the event, he couldn’t escape questions about the persistent rumors swirling around his marriage.

With characteristic wit, he quipped, “Apparently, we’ve bought or moved house 10, 12 times. We’ve apparently divorced maybe 10, 12 times as well. So it’s just like, ‘What?'”

Designed by Harry himself, the £150,000 sparkler features a Botswana-sourced diamond, symbolizing where he first realized he wanted to marry her.

Its absence raised questions, especially as the couple had been apart for weeks due to Harry’s charity work in New York, the UK, and Africa. Markle soon put the rumors to rest after she was later seen wearing the ring again at a children’s hospital gala.

“Harry sometimes feels like a spare part and he often looks unhappy when he’s out with Meghan at events in California,” said the author. While Markle prefers to stay in California, her spouse appears to be embracing more independent ventures.

While Prince Harry’s solo appearances have drawn attention and sparked conversations, his public interactions with Markle have not gone unnoticed. Their dynamic continues to be a point of interest.

Markle uses various forms of touch to communicate with Prince Harry, often signaling their connection. James explained that the royal’s “double clutch,” where she holds her partner with both hands, could be a “gesture of possession.”

Notably, Markle’s tendency to clasp her husband’s arm and hand is not new. She first displayed this gesture during their engagement announcement in 2017.

James said this “clingy clutch” initially signaled “a desire to keep him close,” but more recently, it has taken on a “gesture of possession,” as if to say, “He’s mine.”

The gesture emphasizes that the Duke of Sussex is her priority while allowing for a subtle, sensual touch if her fingers meet his bare arm. This possessive display was also seen at the ESPY Awards in July 2024 when the couple posed with Serena Williams.

Markle’s frequent touch, beyond simply seeking closeness, may also be a sign of “a more maternal form of ownership,” James claimed. The Duchess is often seen placing her hand on Prince Harry’s thigh or knee, as she did at the ESPY Awards.

During the event, where the couple smiled warmly, Markle, dressed in a white gown, rested her hand on her husband’s knee in what could be interpreted as an “intimate or exclusive” gesture. James noted that touching his knee or thigh “stamps” the prince with a sense of ownership, and the move is undeniably sensual.

In addition, Markle frequently opts to hold Prince Harry’s arm instead of his hand. James noted this bicep grip symbolizes her “surrendered” admiration of his strength and masculinity. While allowing him to take the lead, the subtle touch keeps her involved as part of their “double act,” maintaining their close connection.

Markle’s tactile gestures are often matched by Prince Harry, creating a balance in their public displays of affection. While she frequently uses touch to guide or comfort him, Prince Harry’s hand is often placed firmly on hers, with his arm positioned in front.

James observed that this hand placement is a “dominant gesture,” signaling the royal’s desire to take the lead and showcase his protective nature toward his wife.

Online users quickly shared their thoughts on the dynamic between the Duke and Duchess. “It is obvious she is controlling him,” remarked one person. Another user added, “She gives orders to him, tells him when to stop talking to people.”

Others focused on the couple’s interactions in the spotlight. “She clutches him whenever she wants to be part of the attention focused his way, [sic] when she is insecure. She is now the happier-looking one while he looks somber a lot of the time,” observed another.

The public’s fascination with Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s body language continues to fuel discussions, with many speculating on the deeper meaning behind their gestures. Whether viewed as affectionate or controlling, their interactions remain a constant topic of interest.