‘I’m Straight And My Husband Is Gay – This Is The Question Everyone Always Asks’

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A straight woman has opened up about her relationship with her gay husband.

Samantha Greenstone, 37, and Jacob Hoff, 31, from Los Angeles, have a very unique dynamic.

The pair met at auditions for the play Fiddler on the Roof over a decade ago, and have been together ever since.

They also plan to have a family together, after tying the knot at the end of 2024.

Despite Jacob identifying as gay and Samantha as straight, the two claim to have a connection that transcends ‘s**uality.’

Samantha, 37, recently took to her Instagram to answer questions from fans, about how their relationship works.

And Jacob, 31, joined to share his insight and unique perspective.

The one question that everyone wanted to know, is if the two sleep together.

Which, according to the couple, is on the cards.

Samantha said: “Yes and not just side by side under the covers.”

As Jacob added: “No and we don’t just cut a hole in the sheet either.”

“Nope we do it the good old fashioned way,” she noted.

“If you’re confused by what that means, then it’s not our job to teach you the birds and the bees. That responsibility relies on your parents.”

Jacob expressed: “I know it’s mind-bending to a lot of you to be like ‘Well he’s gay, how can he be sleeping with a woman?’

“This isn’t a woman, this is my wife, this is my soulmate, my partner.”

The married couple believe there is way more to their bond than aesthetics and genders.

The 37-year-old added: “It’s just a matter of saying that this isn’t a surface level connection.

“It’s so deep, it’s so intimate. It’s two people just coming together – two souls coming together.

“That’s it, there’s none of that ephemeral beauty nonsense on top of it.”

The clip racked up one million views, with people in the comments extremely confused as to how Jacob identifies as gay, despite having a wife.

“I’m still so confused. So he is bi?’ one added.

As another said: “I’ll never get it but that’s on me. Love that you answer questions.”

Jacob opened up in an interview with the Mirror about how frustrating it can be when people question his relationship.

He said: “We get a lot of, ‘Well how is Jacob ever going to be fulfilled by not being expressing his gayness?’

“That’s where I see a little bit of the bigotry come in, because it’s like, ‘Oh, you think because I’m gay I’m less loyal to a person?’”

The 31-year-old added: “Just because I’m gay doesn’t mean that I would ever be less loyal.

“In a relationship, you wake up and choose your person every day, and that’s the same no matter what dynamic.”

And the couple are eager to have a family of their own one day, after finding their unique ‘soul connection.’